Martha Smith Standish, Matriarch This entry is being given over to my friend and confidant, Martha Smith Standish. " May you live in interesting times " ~ Chinese proverb As many of you have noticed, unless you have been under a rock, we are living in interesting times. And it being summertime - we are past Memorial Day, after all - its time to go and see your family for reunions, weddings, and the like. Not that any of the readers of this blog would need this advice. But I am going to wag my finger just the same, and offer my best advice for cooler heads as the times and temperatures rise: 1) Remember, its a family gathering, reunion, picnic or party, period . It is not a time to grind axes. How do you know this? Look around. Do you see a blacksmith? A grinding wheel? No? Leave your problems in the trunk of your car. Better yet, let go of them before you get there. 2) Put on your best clothes. It shows tha...