How families dealt with the loss of a child.

Part of genealogy is being able to put yourself in the other person's shoes, because sometimes you have to think like they would think when you hit one of those "Why did they do that," brick walls. And some of the time, that revolves around the "discovery" of a child who was not part of "the family" as "the family" was presented to you. This can either be because of issues around conception, the death of a child or the loss of a child through adoption. In order to be a good detective, you need to take off the hat that wear that drives your moral decisions and outlook on life. What I mean is that if you approach a 1900's problem with your 2017 ideas about what people should do and shouldn't, you could be keeping yourself from understanding what happened and judging others on their actions. That isn't our role. Our role is to find out what happened. Taking that 2017 hat off also requires that you have to know the soci...